Saturday, October 20, 2007

Another day in the Husker Nation.

So...Bing came home last night. It was good to see her, but we were all tired after our hard week and all we wanted to do was not talk and go to sleep.

This morning went better. We decided to pass our football tickets to the Husker game today to the building engineer at the high school where Bing teaches. The weather is gorgeous today but supposed to gunk up again tomorrow and we have so many outside chores to get done.

It was a good decision. The building engineer nearly kissed us all as we dropped off the tickets at the school this morning. He, his wife and son have NEVER gone to a game, so this will be so much fun for them.

It was so pleasant just chugging along in the car together this morning. Bing took us into her room at the school and let Liv play on her computers (she teaches computers and music) while she caught up on some work. I wandered into the school library and chatted with the librarian.

Afterwards, we decided to go to Borders and then out to lunch and then to go home and do yard work and listen to the game.

We are all Borders junkies. I knew the exact book I wanted (Garrison Keillor's Pontoon....thank you so much, Jill,for sending me all the information on him), so I picked it up and headed over to the children's section with Liv. She has none of the book tastes that I had as a child. I liked The Little House books, The Bobbsey Twins, Betsy-Tacy books, and anything by Beverly Cleary. Liv likes Harry Potter or anything involving magic, mystery, or adventure. She ended up picking up a book that looked just plain stupid to me, but I kept my mouth shut. It does kill me that she regards my old favorites as "boring."

Bing seldom buys books. It is ALWAYS a cd. This time, it was something by a group called The Decemberists. No clue who they are.

We went here for lunch. Liv loves their mussels platter, Bing goes nutty for their salmon crepes and I'm the carnivore who likes my cheeseburger rare. But, it was so wonderful to just...sit, you know? Just sit and talk and be a family together. As we were sitting, Liv and I noted that once again we were matching in brown corduroy pants and tan sweatshirts. This is getting just plain weird. Bing wore her jeans and Husker tee. The muscles in her arm showed as she reached for some bread over the table in front of me. I had a sudden urge to kiss her arm, but refrained nicely. Later.

And now we are home. Bing is in the yard mowing, Liv is playing with Socks, the puppy who I am very afraid is a mentally handicapped dog who has no concept of housetraining despite lots of effort on ALL of our parts. They are outside tumbling around the back yard while Bing flies by, led by the mower. The radio is blaring the Husker game. We are losing. There isn't a lot of joy in the Husker Nation these days but we are hopeful now that Tom Osborne is back at the helm.

I will go out soon and help to touch up the paint on the windows on the north side of the house, the ones that take a beating every winter.

It occurs to me that I am content. I am spending the day with the two people who I love the most in the world. The sky is so blue that it looks like something a child would paint. The leaves are just beginning to think about turning color, but they are still hanging on to their greens, hating to say goodbye just yet.

I am happy.

22 comments:

dive said...

The Decembrists (was it "The Crane Wife?) and Garrison Keillor.
Great choices from both of you.
Stay happy.

SassyFemme said...

Sounds like a perfect day. I didn't realize Bing taught computers and music. Interesting combination. I'm also a computer teacher, btw.

Gypsy said...

What a beautiful picture of domesticity and contentment...may it always be that way for you and yours Maria.

Terroni said...

Meanwhile, our team is kicking ass. This doesn't mean much to me, but Graci is a huge football fan. Today, as we studied, she took frequent breaks to check the game. The highlight had to be when she yelled, "Off sides? Again? Stand still, fuckers!"

Ahh...football.

Ingrid said...

It sounds like a wonderful day. No wonder you're happy.

eleKtrofly said...

i like the decemberists

amusings_bnl said...

I would love to see a husker game! and i do enjoy the decemberists... may i also recommend my boys GUSTER to you while you're on the topic?

"Ganging up on the Sun" is the latest
and my favorite is "Keep It Together." Both essential albums. And guster on ice, the DVD live in concert is a must have/see. You'll love the State Song when all the computers break in the middle of a song.

welcome home bing.

Pen and the Sword said...

Aw... Beverly Cleary. I love her books. Ramona and Beatrice-- best characters ever! "I can't believe I ate the whole thing" LOL My third grade teacher would read us those books all of the time. When I was older I read 'Dear God, It's Me Margaret'... that is an incredible book. I almost wouldn't mind reading it again for old times sake ;o)

Leaves haven't turned where you are yet? Leaves have changed and are nearly all gone now. The weather has been really really wonky here in MN. Warm, cold, warm, raining for days on end. Just weird.

Glad to hear you are relaxed and enjoying your family. At the end of the day that's what it's all about :o)

Elizabeth Penmark said...

I just love days like those. :)

Around My Kitchen Table said...

What a lovely post. When it comes down to it, material things are irrelevant as long as you have all the basics, what really matters is relationships.I get those moments of contentment too, and feel very lucky that I do.

Gypsy said...

Hi Maria, I have a little something for you over at my blog which I hope you will enjoy :)

deb said...

Sounds like you had a nice homey time. Glad you found someone to give the tickets to - it's great to go to a game when you have *never* been there before!

deb

PS: My website URL has been hi-jacked. Don't go there - it's now got a whole shit-load of porn links. I did not put those there. I am so unhappy.

Some day I will start a new site...
-d-

Factor 10 said...

What a wonderful day! I think this is what I love about blogs. Days like that can get lost in the dramatic highs and lows of the years, but now that slice of everyday heaven is accorded it's own place...
(Okay, I realize that journalers have known this for years, but keeping journals never thrilled me.)

Pen and the Sword said...

By the way, I nominated you for a little something over at my place ;o) Come see!

Maria said...

Deb..if you happen to come back...I somehow have lost your e-mail, so if you can e-mail me to give me your address again, I promise that this time I will be less scatterbrained.

I miss your blog. Those fuckers. Come back soon.

Patois said...

There's not much more one can ask for besides contentment. (Okay, I'll ask for good health, too, but I figure I wouldn't be too damn content if me or mine were ill.) Glad you're all enjoying some time together.

CDPJ said...

What a beautiful day! It's nice to feel content, isn't it. And I'm goin to point this one out as another one you should tag for when you're feeling down... :-)

Angelissima said...

Decemberists and Guster. Excellent choices...might I add mine -
Gomez

I love that kind of day. Enjoy!

the only daughter said...

I'm looking forward to days like those (minus the young child)--but yes, easy, breezy family bonding days. Yum.

Lainey-Paney said...

:)
happy day

zirelda said...

Oh I love days like that though they don't come around often enough for my taste. Something usually happens. Like hormones or someone calls and needs something and interrupts our zen...

What a great day for you.

Josie Two Shoes said...

What a lovely day spent together just being! Funny, these end up being the ones we treasure most. It was great to read of you feeling truly happy and at peace.